As Oscar Wilde didn’t get the chance to say, “The cure of my ennui lies in gloating at yours”.
Since I am extremely ennui-struck at the moment, feel free to message/email me tales of your misfortune, and I will give you my considered opinion and advice on it. If I have your permission, I will post it anonymously on my blog.
Of course, you might think your travails are just a lark for me. They are. But!, growing up with erudite, engaging, sympathetic and practical people ripened with age and experience, I have also mistressed the art of excellent and well-considered advice. So fire away!